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		<title>21 months</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 21:19:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann Z</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Zoe didn&#8217;t see her first fireworks this month, but she has hit a bunch of other milestones:

She says the word &#8220;no&#8221;, and she is not afraid to use it.  At all.
Got her first haircut.  Well, trim, really.  She had two big curls that were longer than the rest of the back of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tragicoptimist.wordpress.com&blog=1171315&post=185&subd=tragicoptimist&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Zoe didn&#8217;t see her first fireworks this month, but she has hit a bunch of other milestones:</p>
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<li>She says the word &#8220;no&#8221;, and she is not afraid to use it.  At all.</li>
<li>Got her first haircut.  Well, trim, really.  She had two big curls that were longer than the rest of the back of her hair, so I trimmed those off.</li>
<div class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 250px"><a href="http://lh6.ggpht.com/anngwinn/SHV4MOwA8iI/AAAAAAAADiU/gHuisP72Qs4/s400/IMG_2474.jpg"><img src="http://lh6.ggpht.com/anngwinn/SHV4MOwA8iI/AAAAAAAADiU/gHuisP72Qs4/s400/IMG_2474.jpg" alt="After her first hair trim" width="240" height="180" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">After her first hair trim</p></div>
<li>She&#8217;s started waving to kids without me asking her to do so.  When we walk around the lake and she sees another kid in a stroller, it&#8217;s like she&#8217;s running into an old friend, she lights up and waves with a huge smile.</li>
<li>We&#8217;re way into the independence streak all of a sudden.  I tried to feed her the last spoonful of applesauce this evening.  &#8220;No!&#8221; as she pushes my hand away.  I tried to help her get her pajamas on last night.  &#8220;No!&#8221; and much wailing as I did it anyway.  (It was cute to watch her try to put here pajama bottoms over her head, but it was getting late.)</li>
<li>New lenses for her glasses &#8211; they make her eyes look even bigger.  Hopefully they will also get her eyes back to straight again.
<p><div class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 330px"><a href="http://picasaweb.google.com/anngwinn/ZoeMonth21/photo#5222332181748082562"><img src="http://lh4.ggpht.com/anngwinn/SHlzc0AvZ4I/AAAAAAAADkg/h7pjS1Jf-S8/s400/IMG_2481.jpg" alt="Not sure you can really tell, but I can - her eyes are looking straighter with the new lenses" width="320" height="240" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Not sure you can really tell, but I can - her eyes are looking straighter with the new lenses</p></div></li>
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<li>Lots of new words.  She&#8217;s repeating a lot of words that we say, but ones that she&#8217;s recently said spontaneously:
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<li>car, baby, rice, ice, bo-bo (to mean strawberries, raspberries, or grapes &#8211; no, I don&#8217;t understand), coffee (this makes me inordinately proud), duck, shoes, rock (both the verb when on her rocking chair, and the noun when we&#8217;re outside).</li>
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<li>She all of a sudden can identify lots of body parts
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<li>head, hair, eyes, ears, nose, cheeks, mouth, teeth, chin, neck, elbow, hands, fingers, belly button, knees, feet, toes</li>
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			<media:title type="html">Not sure you can really tell, but I can - her eyes are looking straighter with the new lenses</media:title>
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		<title>of pants and cheese</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Mar 2008 18:35:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ann Z</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The great thing about coffee-colored pants is that when (for me, it&#8217;s not an if, it&#8217;s a when) you spill your coffee, it doesn&#8217;t show up at all.  I leave the question of the bad thing about white shirts as an exercise for the reader.
Zoe has a new word, &#8220;cheese.&#8221;  She usually says it as [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tragicoptimist.wordpress.com&blog=1171315&post=132&subd=tragicoptimist&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>The great thing about coffee-colored pants is that when (for me, it&#8217;s not an if, it&#8217;s a when) you spill your coffee, it doesn&#8217;t show up at all.  I leave the question of the bad thing about white shirts as an exercise for the reader.</p>
<p>Zoe has a new word, &#8220;cheese.&#8221;  She usually says it as a question when we&#8217;re looking in the refrigerator.  There&#8217;s something overwhelmingly cute about the plaintive &#8220;cheese?&#8221; request.</p>
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